Galatians 6:1-2 says, “Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such a one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted. Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
God’s way of correction and assistance is gentleness and meekness. His ways are different than the world’s ways.
Do your friends and loved ones see God or the world in you?